Tag Archives: Life

What matters in life

Peace
Don’t trade your peace of mind for anything else. Without peace of mind you won’t scale.

Focus
Have a razor focused presence of mind. Your attention span is your greatest skill.

Time
Time is your only currency aka YOLO so make every second count.

Learn
Get out of your comfort zone and learn something new everyday.

Build
You learn more when you build something. And it is also the best way to earn more.

Kids
Spend time with your children, help them become more curious and teach them to be kind.

Karma
Go above and beyond to help others and life will help you to get all the luck and timing you need.

Health
Importance of health is realized when it’s gone. No health, no wealth as simple as that. Also, your health is mostly what you eat.

Sleep
Sleep is the best medicine and also the best reset machine so sleep as much as you can.

Cook
Cooking and eating a healthy home cooked meal daily is an underrated skill. Learn to cook yourself and also teach it to your kids.

Read
Books are your best friends, best teachers and best degrees so read books everyday.

Write
Write something everyday.

Hustle
Work insanely hard while moving from one failure to another without losing your heart.

Workout
Workout not only improves your health but it also improves your attention so just do it.

Urgency
Great execution is all about showing and acting with urgency.

No sugar
It is an addiction that not only hampers your health but your productivity too so just don’t do it.

No social
Don’t waste your time on social media counting likes, views or reading comments, gossip and fake news.

No anger
Your anger only destroys you. Just forgive and forget.

No anxiety
Do your part by doing the right thing and giving your best but don’t be anxious about the results.

No shortcuts
Just like there is no free lunch, there are no shortcuts in life. What comes easy, goes easy.

No distractions
Don’t get distracted by your temptations, failures and naysayers.

No desperation
Don’t be desperate in your deals but also don’t play zero sum games. Let others win too.

No comparisons
Keep your head down, compete with yourself and become a better person everyday.

No disappointments
No matter what happens, don’t get disappointed and lose your will to fight.

Life equations

I recently heard a great question, what mental model/framework do people usually use while choosing between convenience and frugality? It is a simple question yet it makes you ask many other questions about yourself. For instance, what is more important to you and in what order? Which things can you or cannot compromise?

So after I heard that question, I wanted to do some self-reflection and revisit my weaknesses, strengths, priorities and values. It actually didn’t take much time for me to sort my resources on what I call the number scale of life and then come up with some life equations.

Disclaimer: I have two very active kids so most of my rules are centered around them and how it impacts their day. In other words, it may not necessarily apply to you so please take my rules with a grain of salt. With that being said, here are my current set life equations (not saying that they are correct but just sharing what I currently follow):

Time > Money

E.G: If there is a job which will take me an entire day but if a contractor can finish it in an hour then I would rather hire the contractor (provided his hourly rate is not astronomical compared to my hourly rate). And then utilize my extra time on things which I enjoy and which will make my kids less cranky.

Happiness > Money

E.G: After having kids, I don’t mind paying extra to make my travel experience good, safe and less tiring for my kids. But if I didn’t have kids then I would probably go absolutely frugal on things like travel since I can always utilize my time listening to audiobooks or reading books while traveling.

Peace > Money

E.G: I try to avoid FOMO while buying assets. I would prefer to sleep peacefully at night rather than worrying how much more I would lose the next day. So I only invest in what I understand, when there is a dip and when I am not paying a premium price.

Health > Peace > Time > Money

If you are not healthy then nothing else matters. All your time and money would be of no use if you are not healthy. So eat healthy, stay fit and sleep well. Also if you are not at peace then you would just not be able to give your best and utilize what you have. So avoid things, jobs and relationships which steal away your health and peace of mind at the cost of time and money.

Happiness = Health + Help + Hustle

Without health, you cannot achieve anything else so you absolutely need that. After health, you need to hustle to be able to utilize your time and available resources. You also need to help others to learn compassion and have a little bit of luck. This luck will help your hard work succeed. So once you have health, efforts, luck, compassion and success, nothing can stop you from being happy.

But what about money?

Well money is just a byproduct of your hustle to happiness.

10x returns

In 2021, Elon became the world’s richest person and was awarded Time person of the year. It all didn’t happen in a day or a year. He has been hustling for more than 20+ years now. I worked at Tesla for almost 5 years and can tell you from my own experience that he is one of the most hard working people I have ever seen in my life. So to me the success of Elon or valuation of his companies is no surprise. I actually think he and his companies are just getting started.

In my opinion, money and success are mostly the fruits of our labor. Although you also need little luck and timing which we will discuss soon.

One important thing which I have learned is that there are no shortcuts in life. If it comes easy then it will go easy. So if you want to get 10x returns in life (be it money, success, career or relationship) then you need to learn to invest in the right thing and for the right time.

Following are some of the things which I have learned from my 10x failures and 10x winners that I wanted to share:

Learn 10x. Give 10x.

If you believe in life long learning then nothing can stop you. The trick is to learn about hard things and things which others are not paying attention to. Remember that Elon started a rocket company by reading books on rockets and WhatsApp co-founder Jan Koum taught himself computer networking by purchasing manuals from a used book store. But with learning you need a little bit of luck too. And luck comes from just one thing which is to give to others. In other words, you need to go above and beyond to help others.

Value your time 10x more.

In my opinion, time is the real money. So I don’t like to spend my time arguing with customer service on why a package was delivered late to me. Neither do I like to stand in long lines to return an item. Thus to stay away from these materialistic distractions, I try to have a minimalist lifestyle aka consume only what is needed and try not to get attached to things which have no long term value. In other words, my focus instead is to spend my time and energy only on things that have the potential to return life changing returns.

On that note following is one of the best tweet which I have read on valuing your time:

Improve your health by 10x.

If you are not healthy then nothing else matters, neither your time nor your money or success. The longer you can play, the more opportunities and returns you can get. But you can play longer only if you are healthy. The goal of staying healthy is actually to stay young. I once read a tweet (which I cannot find now) but that summarized this point very well: When you are young you want to be rich and when you are rich you want to be young.

Invest in Founders/CEOs executing at 10x.

Running super successful companies that can return 10x is all about execution, execution and execution. In fact the title of the CEO stands for Chief Execution Officer. So invest in those that can operate at 10x and those who are immune to chaos and short term failures involved in ruthless execution.

Invest in those solving 10x harder problems.

The biggest advantage of solving or investing in those who are solving super hard problems is that there is very less competition. The other advantage is that you still get the 10x market opportunity to grow. And if you can grow by 10x then your returns would also be 10x.

Increase your emotional & self-discipline by 10x.

When you try to solve hard problems or invest in those who are solving hard problems, it won’t be an easy ride. Learn to develop a thick skin by increasing your emotional and self-discipline. Don’t get into arguments with people regarding what they think or what they say. You don’t have to agree or disagree with anyone. Don’t read the news, ignore the rumors and turn-off the comments and notifications. Instead spend all your energy in doing the work and getting things done. Also, don’t get disheartened by the success or luck of others. In other words, level up your self-discipline to stay focused, cheerful and hopeful.

Work hard. Build products. Be present. Play long term and Have fun.

If there was just one thing that you could learn from this post then it would be this section so let’s discuss each thing in some detail

Work hard

Working hard doesn’t necessarily mean spending more hours. It instead means to not compromise the quality of your work. It means to give more than what was expected. It means to have integrity and always do the right thing. It means following up and staying on top of your deliverables.

Build products

Learn to build and sell products. Working for someone else can make you rich but selling your own products can make you super rich. Of course it comes with risk but without risk there are no rewards.

Be present

In this world of internet, social-media and never ending news, your attention is your most valuable asset. Don’t get distracted by social likes and hearts. Your quality of work and execution is what differentiates you and it all depends on your ability to stay focused aka being present.

Play long term

Learn to play the long term game as building and holding things is hard. Also, it usually takes 10+ years for successful products to go from idea to IPO and another 10 years to get the non-linear returns.

Have fun

In the end we are all going to die so what’s the point if you are not having fun and if you are not at peace. I actually value peace more than time so my formula to deal with life is:
Peace > Time > Money.

If doing something doesn’t give you peace and happiness then don’t do it no matter what impact it makes or how much money it will make you.

You do your best and get the best results when you are having fun.